What Shall I Get Them For Their Birthday?

It’s that special person’s birthday again and you want to get them something equally special. Yet again, you find yourself wandering through aisles at department stores, surfing the internet for inspiration, racking your brains for ideas. Will they like this? What size should I get? What colour? Will they like it? Well, I like it. …

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Who? Me?

Do you live your life as if your life depended on it? As if every moment mattered? Even from the dizzy heights of hitting 40, looking back, one of the biggest regrets people have is that they didn’t take better care of themselves. We tend to think of ourselves as about 10-15 years younger than …

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Crime And Punishment Revisited

When someone wrongs you, how do you react? What is your reaction determined by? Should you forgive and forget, or does that make you a pushover? One of the topics that comes up for discussion in MMM is forgiveness. Not an easy topic, and not an easy thing to do sometimes. Even when you consider …

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Live Long – Live Now : Caring

By cluttering up our lives with the “wrong” kind of people, we don’t have space for those who are deserving of our love and care. It’s not that the “wrong” people are intrinsically wrong, just not right for us. This might sound a bit ruthless but it’s not. Relationships are like plants. Weeds can overgrow …

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Live Long – Live Now: Boundaries

At the tender age of 62 I can safely say that I have wasted a lot of time, energy, and love on the wrong people for the wrong reasons. I been working with people for over 35 years and one of the biggest pieces of advice I can give is “If someone doesn’t treat you …

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